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how does he feel?
Theres this boy I've known like 6 years.. me and him just started messin around and he knows I care deeply for him ... aka like him. I love him.. but he doesnt know it, i guess. But we just had sex, and I sleep over his house sometimes and we cuddle kiss... and he kisses my forehead and tells me 'Goodnight beautiful' .. but when everyone else is around hes rude to me and he ignores me. He doesnt call me anymore, he doesnt even IM me much. But his friends all tell me he likes me, and right now I'm trying to ask him how he feels - and he wont friggen answer me! I'm 17 years old, I know I can find someone older than me that wont play games (hes only 15).. but I cant help the way I feel about him. He recently got arrested, and I was the first person that he wanted to be with. I slept over his house that night and we just cuddled. Then the next time I slept at his house he upset me and made me cry for two hours. Ever since that night we haven't quite been the same and I'm not sure what to do. I really care about him more deeply then I have about anyone else. He's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose the friendship ... but if he keeps up the childish immature little games, theres not going to be a friendship there to keep..
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I agree 100 % that the childiish games need to stop. Ive heard of guys doing this before - - the whole sweet to you..but mean when friends are around - type deal. I honestly think you dont desserve that crap..you can find some other guy who can treat you right when your with his friends AND by yourself.
this guy is only treating you nicely when hes getting some it seems. He sounds like he has some problems going on in his life..i would stop messing around with him and wait for the gentleman to come into your life.Keep him as a friend, but stop messing around.
I've had a couple 'hookups' im a virgin so it didnt get as far as you did...but ive come to learn that when two people are on different pages (like in your case) it cant and wont work. Hes still being an immature 15 year old who doesnt know how to treat a girl..meanwhile your searching for something more. Lose him as far as romance goes..keep him as a friend
much luv
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