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being too tight..
Hi, I'm 15 f/ and me and my boyfriend have been going out for just over 2 months, and i really like him and we tell eachother that we love eachother and stuff..i've given him head and handjob and stuff and he says he wants to "return the favour"..i've never been fingered before and I want to do it but i'm afraid i'll be too "tight" or something..I use tampons so I know it like looses it up and stuff, but im not sure how it would be when he does it..
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Well you're a step ahead of where I was when my guy and I started getting sexual. I never used tampons, lol.
Anyway, fingering shouldn't hurt. Let him start using just one finger (especially if he has big hands/fingers), and move to two. I doubt you'd be too tight if I wasn't. Fingering doesn't all happen internally, you know (and I hope he knows). A woman's clitoris is like THE sex organ for her. He'll figure that out fast if he doesn't already know. If something hurts you, don't be afraid to say "ow", and don't be afraid to guide his hand a little...if you know what you like, teach him.
As far as how it is when he does it, you'll just have to find out! It's different for every girl - it feels good, it shouldn't hurt, and - oh yeah. Make sure he doesn't have sharp fingernails, 'cause those hurt. ^^
You've got nothing to worry about. Just let him lead and go along with it.
I hope this helps!
-Siren =)
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