heyi need some help,.... i have this friend that i really like and she likes me to (im a guy lol) but her best friend also likes me and whenever her best friend talks to me she tells me how much she likes me but i want to go out with the other girl and i dont want to make the other one hurt...
-it'll possibly ruin the relationship you have with her
-it'll possibly ruin the relationship the girl you like has with her
.. but if you guys really want to date eachother ; then I would try sitting down with this girl and just calmly explaining to her how you like her best friend more, and how you would just like to be friends and how you all are gonna work on making it not as awkward as possible and just going back to normal because you all really wanna stay friends and stuff. Because no matter what you do here ; you're kinda gonna make someone hurt, and I hate these situations, and I'm sure you hate it more. You're gonna hurt the one girl for dating her best friend, and the other for maybe NOT dating her. You just kinda have to think about this really hard and do what feels right. Because even though you might hurt her, you have the chance to fix the relationship with her, and you'd be dating that girl in the process. If you'd like to talk to me about this more, please just IM me at:
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