I'm 13/F and I've been going out with this guy for a while and I think he wants to kiss me (but I'm not sure). I want to kiss him too, but the problem is that I've never been kissed so I am really, really nervous. Everytime we lock eyes I look away because I'm too nervous. How do you know when a guy wants to kiss you and how do you kiss?
When a guy wants to kiss you, you kind of... lock eyes, like you said. You look each other straight in the eyes. Then, he starts to get closer and when he does, so do you. Get closer to him and tilt your head a little so you can kiss him. Then, when yours and his lips touch, he usually takes it from there. He leads and you follow what he does. Sometimes, later in the kiss, he'll slip his tongue in. Don't be scared by this! Slip yours in too! Then, what he does, you do, all over again. Don't worry. It's normal to be scared for the first time. The reason why you're scared is because you have never done it before and you really like him!
You can practice in front of a mirror (with a door locked :-)) Or, if you have a really close best friend, some girls practice on their best friends... girls or boys! It's really fun to kiss someone and you'll never forget your first time. You may forget your second or third time, but your first time stays with you forever. It's a very special moment in everyones lives. Trust me, he'll enjoy it and once you do it, you will too. You'll get used to it and feel less nervous around him and you'll also feel more confident about yourself and more confortable to kiss him. It's a great feeling!
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