hey, i been going out with this boy for about 3 weeks now. before going out, we were "together" for about a week. about 3 days into us being "together" he tells me he loves me -&- then he asked me out.
problem: i tell him i love him back, because yeah i do love him, and i care about him, and i wanna be with him. but im not IN love with him.
he tells me constantly like everyday that hes in love with me, that i mean the world to him, and im the only good thing in his life and all that jazz.
i like hearing it, but i feel horrible because im not in love with him and when i tell him i love him, i dont mean it.
i like him ALOT i mean our relationship is great
other problem: my parents. they wont let me go to his house, and now that they found out he stopped by mine to say hello when i was babysitting and they were out, they say hes not allowed at my house for the rest of the summer.
what should i do? i explained to them what happened and everything and they wont listen.
im afraid my parents are going to ruin the amazing relationship i have with him.
any advice? x3 thanks alot for listening.
~*brittney
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MELiixMARiiE answered Sunday August 7 2005, 5:38 pm: What I suggest doing is try getting them to listen more. Just "attack" whenever they aren't doing anything so then all their attention will be on you. Just explain to them how nothing was going to happen that night whenever they weren't home ; he just came over to say hi. And how you'd really like him to be trusted by them two, and maybe trying to have him over for dinner sometime so they can. Because if they don't trust them ; then you probably aren't going to be allowed to do much with him. Other than that, if you don't wanna do that, then I guess maybe just try...hiding it from them or something? If you want to talk more about this with me, please IM me at:
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