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Lost in myself


Question Posted Thursday August 4 2005, 7:37 pm

Hello. I'm a sort of semi-goth, I don't own much black, but I have a black outlook, because I was teased so much as a child it became easier to accept that I am the least of all human beings, and I don't really know how to relate to people. I'm almost always too afraid of failure to even try

My question is this: How can I get over my fear of failure, and begin to relate to my peers?


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margarita_luvs_ya answered Thursday August 4 2005, 7:42 pm:
I use to be like you scared and afraid of what could, would or might happen. The fact is you just gotta do it. You can't fear it deal with it. Just keep saying this in your head: 'What have I got to lose.' DON'T think about an answer just keeep saying it and do or at least try to attempt what you do.

Next, today in society, looks are everything. The quote don't judge a book by its cover seems to not even exist anymore! If you are willing to try and I mean IF get a little make over. If people think because of the way you look, change. Show them that your just like them and know different. Change is sometimes a good thing. I want you to get out there and at least try and say the saying. And remeber..You fear NOTHING but fear itself.

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