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hi, i need some major help! ok, well i have this one guy friend who im really close to, (ill call him frank) and we tell each other everything. but one day, i was on the phone with him, and i asked him who he liked and he wouldnt tell me! i kept asking him and he said to give him time and he'd tell me later. so i got on AIM that night and talked to one of my other friends who was going out with the guy friend, (i'll call her frannie) and she still sort of likes him. frannie told me that she thinks that frank likes me. i didn't really think so and i told her i wouldnt go out with him, because i didn't want to be mean to her. but she signed off and i started thinking that the way frank had been talkin was different, and he did SORT OF sound like he liked me, and then i thought i did sort of like him, and that if he DID ask me out i would say yes. but, if it does end up that he likes me, i want to say yes, but then i dont want to (because of frannie). i'm really counfused! can you PLEASE help me ASAP! thanks!
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This is a hard question to answer, but I'll try. Is Frannie still going out with Frank? It sounds like they're not, but if they were you should just be friends with them both. But, if they are broken up, you may want to consider why they broke up. If she broke up with him, then in my opinion you have the right to go out with him since it was her choice to break up. But you should still be nice to her. If he broke up with her, it may be because he likes you instead or something, since your friend did say that she thinks he likes you. And since your friend said that about him liking you, she must not like him that much. I don't think this is something you and Frannie should get into an argument about, but I think you should ask her if she would mind you going out with him first. But you should consider your opinions, also. Just do what you think would be best. I hope I helped!
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