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Well gurl you know me!!! So here goes...During the middle of like last year i started like looking at gurls and i got worried at first thinking i was bi. But my friends said it was normal but i always knew that it wasn't for me. I knew that when i looked at them, i knew i'd rather be closer with them than a guy. Whenever i joked around with it i caught myself thinking ,"if only they knew i wasn't kidding." And stuff like that. Even if a girl touched me i felt weird. My friend and i called each other gay a lot in french class but we were always just joking. I found out she really was. And the stuff we did, felt right i guess. Then this summer i was like okay, i'm not bi because it's against everything i believe in and i cant do that to my family. But i've never stopped wanting it. I know i shouldn't, but i want it. And it's really hard ya know??? Even when i finally "decided" i was still worried about it. Which made me wonder even more. I feel like i'm really lost and i dont want to be this way when school starts. I want to have decided. Usually people just tell me it takes a long time to really decide. But, i can't take that!!! I'm not one to sit back and wait for things to take care of themselves!!! It's like denying yourself something you relaly want. I know i'm young and all, but does that really matter??? I'm afraid really. I'm sorry this is long. But it's all i can think of. for now at least. Please help me here. I feel like i can actually trust you.
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This is what you said and i quote this:
"it's against everything i believe in". Sweetie if it's aganist everything you believe in then you wouldn't feel any feelings towards the same sex. What i think you meant was it's everything my family believes in and are aganist. That's a whole different story. I understand why you feel so lost and confused. You dont want your family to disown you as their own child. Honestly i dont think you need help. I think you just need a friend or someone to talk to. So i'm happy you came to me. I will always be here for you or anyone else that needs a friend. Also hunny there is nothing wrong with you being bi but i have a feeling that it's just a faze that your going through. It will pass. But then again maybe it's not. Yeah yeah i know you dont like to sit back and wait for things but that's the only solution here. Wait until you get older and if you still have feelings for the same sex then you know for sure. About your parents well if they truely love you they will except the fact of you being bi. Not right away but you are their child and they love you and always will no matter what. If you tell them now that you think you are bi they will deny it 100%, and they will say it's just something your going through which might be true. If you wait until your older they can't say anything but except the facts.
Hope i helped
♥ maria ♥
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