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sry idk if i sent this twice or not
i have a really good friend who is a guy,(im a girl) and i\'ve known him all my life. his aunt and my aunt are best friends and thats how we met. we sw each other alot when our aunts would get together and bring us places with my brother an some other friends. we would go camping,hiking,sleepovers,campfires, and all that other stuff...and everytime we were together we would have so much fun and i loved hanging out with him because we got along so well. we talked about alot of stuff. he is the same age as me, so we pretty much went through the same stuff. but now that we are getting older and we have more friends, i havent been seeing him as much as i used to because either our aunts are busy or i\'m busy or he\'s busy. and it sucks because i miss him and now we only see each other a couple times a year. and now when we get to hang out, its not the same. we dont talk as much anymore online or when we hang out with our aunts or whoever. i feel like i lost him and i feel like we arent as close and it really really bothers me. i dont wanna lose him more than i already have. and i dont think i can do anything about it because when we talk online we dont have things to talk about and we dont know what to say. and yeah i know we\'re growing up and making more friends and we have more activities and things to do, but i just really miss the times we would hang out! and i keep thinking about it and it brings me down. my aunt sees that we\'re not as close anymore either, and she feels bad. sometimes i dont even wanna hang out with him when we get the chance too because now its so boring and stupid. i dont know what to do and i dont know how to handle this !!!
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where to start, throughout your life your gonna meet people who mean everything to you, and their gonna hold a speical place in your heart no one can replace, but instead of thinking how boring and stupid your relationship is now, dont push it anymore, you guys were bestfriends you made endless memories and gave eachother something that no one else could give you both, the love of a true friendship that was hard to handle of letting the fact come through that its over. One thing about growing up has a downfall of growing apart, i wish i could tell you everything was gonna be okay, but you both are different people now, and different lives and now will meet other people who are gonna need your love and strength to the pull the friendships through for others. there is a time and place for everything. not being close anymore doesnt mean stop talking forget what you had, or simply getting over upset about the past, because its gone and now you have to look forward for whats going to be coming at you. You both gave eachother a gift, and that was being able to tell eachother everything and still loving them for who they are. there will be a time in life where taking 2 oppsite paths will approach you. "everything happens for a reason"
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