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my boyfriend goes to a vocation school or whatever and he is going to be a junior, which means all the freshman girls are going to be in his shop classes. it makes me so nervous and he says nothing will happen but i know how girls can be liek and how guys can be like. i am stressing alot badly and i dont know what to do=( help please
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I think the question is do you trust him? You have to realize your boyfriend has 2 years on these girls. He's probably already saw all the tricks they might throw at him so he should be able to realize that they are only "tricks" not true feelings like he has with you. I wouldn't worry too much about it unless you have a reason not to trust him.
Also, guys like to be able to talk to their girlfriends about something. You could show a little interest in shop yourself. Even if you don't like it, he'll appreciate the fact that you took an interest in something he enjoys and he'll remember that when he meets these girls that probably just took shop to catch an older guy.
Good luck.
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don't freak out too much. if this guy is as great as you make him out to be then he'll be loyal. the last thing you want to do is smother him. if you smother him with too much love or questions then he'll start feeling trapped (which could start doubts in him). tell him that you do trust him and that you care about him alot. keep things as casual as they've always been. don't bring up too many questions about these new girls in his class. let him bring it up if he wants. remind yourself that YOU ARE A GREAT CATCH and that he doesn't control your life. if you don't have self confidence in yourself, then you can't expect your sweetheart to, right?
saying IF he cheats on you, it's not the end of the world. life will go on and you will find so many other great guys. if he does cheat, dont let it slide. break up with him now before it gets too hard and you become too much of a pushover for stupid things HE does. because it doesn't matter if he does like you, he didn't like and care about you enough to not hurt you.
keep me updated =]
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Hn...
Tell him about your feelings,hopefully he should assure you that nothing will happen.
Another way to kind of 'claim' him is to give him something that he will wear often,or take to school often.A necklace,shirt...something of that nature.
If you go to his school,meet up with him after class,give him hugs and kisses...even when the other girls are watching.They should back off.
Hope I've helped in some way,
~Long Lost <3
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