Okay, my friend and I snuck behind our parents backs and met this guy she is in love with at the bowling allie, and some of his friends. I hadn't ever met the guy she likes.. until then. and i now, I REALLY like him.. and last night, he IMed me, and told me he likes me.. and so ofcourse I told him I liked him too.. and then this morning, I got online, and my friend told me that last night, he told her that he loves her. and she is so happy.. I asked him about it today, and he told me he didn't even like her anymore.. and me and him REALLY like eachother... WHAT SHOULD I DO!?
-real confused..-
Im a thirteen year old girl going into 8th grade, and he's going into 9th.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? charmed3fanatic answered Tuesday August 2 2005, 7:34 pm: i think he's playing with your mind. like i think he likes you and all.. but he is lying too you.. and i don't think you should be with someone.. that is lying to you.. a relationship is about trust.. and how could you trust him if he was already lying to you.. about the whole him saying he loves your friend.. because why would you friend be so happy over nothing you know what i mean.. you know she wasn't lying.. so obviously he told her he loved her or else she wouldn't be glowing.. if you really like him.. you friend will be happy for you and if shes not then she's not a good friend.. i mean she will be mad at first but if she doesn't forgive you then she isn't a good friend.. but then again.. she did like him first.. so it would be kinda taking him away from her you know.. i say you make a list of the options.. and then right pro's and con's about them all.. and see which one you think is going work out the best.. because i mean she is your friend.. and im sure you don't want to loose her right? hope i helped and if you need anything else just let me know :-) [ charmed3fanatic's advice column | Ask charmed3fanatic A Question ]
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