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~2 guys~ WOW I am amazed but so torn and confused....
I'm a 23/f....I met this guy online over a year ago, totally hit it off, that I moved miles to be with him, "now techically we wasnt together, but I risked it" but in that time, he started seeing someone else, we always talked about it so even though it bothered me it didnt matter.... he does care, but with in the last year we've remained very very close friends, I know it wasnt fair to his GF but there was intimacy...after awhile of being here getting setting in this town, I started looking to try and date someone else, I met another guy but he stood me up, Then my bestest friend for 12 yrs tells me he likes me, he always had even in high school, I did to back then, I liked him too, I never really got to know him On a more personal level, but the thing is he lives in another state, I fell in love with him and things are great,so great he propose in the sweetest way, i said yes...but i dont know now.... the bad thing about us 2 is the not seeing eachother, and the fact he's not moving here, cause he's families tight, but i am not moving there b/c I'm tired of giving everything I got for a guy and it not work out. But now latley the other guy I move here for has been there for me, in good or bad, no matter what it was to do with, he's stuck in there after thinking I was pregant 2times. He just broke up with his GF, which I know and he knows, That the feelings between us are still strong and there. "I even tryed to end the friendship with him about 2 wks ago." that didnt last i felt so bad. "in reality I cant have both, WHAT DO I DO.... PLEASE HELP ME! ty sorry so long... I rate this extremely high....
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ok i read this over a few times and im confused..do you mean your best friend said the guy who stood you up has always liked you since high school?
well the best advice i have for you is to not wait around on something that isnt going to happen...sometimes things just dont work out..and you have to accept it and move on to the next love interest
i also think that if you helped a guy cheat on his gf..what makes you think he wont turn around on you and cheat on you?
the guy who has stuck by you seems more valid
just remember sometimes you have to move on when things are in a standstill for too long
im sorry if that didnt help but i got a little confused with who was who and stuff.
please inbox me again if this did not help
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