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move on or keep going
ive liked this guy for toooooooo long.
the bad thing is, i had him once. im not saying we're not friends anymore, because we really are. we usually talk daily or go places with each other (not alone, usually with other friends of ours). i dont think he likes me anymore but theres this little thing that tells me he does. he always talks to me about his situations, and i love it. just that he can open up to me, even a little, is awesome. when hes gone, i miss him to death. ive never really missed someone out of family / my friends that much. most of my friends know that i like him so im assuming he knows too. hes not aggressive with girls at all; hes not the one that asks girls out often. im young, and i hate being told to move on because sometimes it takes me years (yea, yikes, i know), but please be honest on this one. i really need help.
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Wow, I have a friend that's totally in your position. That really stinks when you like a guy but "can't have him". I think it is good that the two of you are still friends. It's really great that he is able to open up to you. I can't tell you for sure whether or not the guy have more than friendship feelings towards you. It may be that he does, but at the same time he doesn't. These situations are sometimes hard to deal with because (you) get hurt. You're right, it is hard to move on. My advice to you would be to stay friends, and keep doing what you're doing. The think to not do woud be his friend with benefits. That gives him the wrong idea about you and you'll never get a real relationship back with him. Be friends. In the mean time, take notice to how he is around you. Is he every flirty? If he is, especially in front of other then maybe you're right; there might be something there. I am not saying to get your hopes completely up though. If you feel brave enough or you seem like there might be a good time to bring things up..you could be straight forward and ask "Do you have any feelings for me still?" The worst you could do is ask. If he does, then great..work from there. If he doesn't you are going to have to learn to accept that. You can't force emotions. So if that's the case, prepare to deal with him being with other girls..and you should go out and meet some guys! School is just around the corner..take advcantage of that. Live your life. :)
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