Im kinda confused, i just had a wonderful bf that was better then any other 1 i had EVER, we went out the first time and my friend broke us up, then wen he found out a whole long conversation started and my best friend got us bak together, then we made a promise that if anything i will talk about it first be4 braking up... i really really liked him but after a while everything just fadded away, then i had to dump him and forgot the promise i had made, i asked ppl 4 advise on wat i shud do and sum said dump him... so i took there advise and dumped him, it was a hard thing to do.... he still kinda likes me (hav no idea y) and i do not know wat to do... should i make him happy and keep my promise, give him 1 last chance, or leave him heart broken...
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? GossipGirl56 answered Wednesday August 3 2005, 2:18 pm: Well you did say you guys have been going out twice. Didn't you? Well in my opinion that is my limit. I know dumping people is a hard thing to do especially if you like him, and he really liked you in return. Also don't take other peoples advice. He's your boyfriend. . .so you choose! You shouldn't let other people choose for you. Maybe you should talk to him about your feelings. About how you broke your promise & your really sorry,but if you don't like him then i mean that is just like using him. So if you don't really like i would sugest just asking for you guys to just be friends. If you do give him one more chance that would obviouly mean that you would have to like him.So i think you should just talk to him, tell him your sorry for breaking the promise, & say "Listen I just want to be friends". It's as easy as that. He'll get over you eventually so don't worry about a thing.
Hope I helped.
P.s I know what your going through that EXACT same thing just happend to me & now me & him are better friends then EVER.
Good Luck,
Nicole xoxo [ GossipGirl56's advice column | Ask GossipGirl56 A Question ]
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