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ooohhh?? is it regret?? or misplaced trust?? lol
im not sure wheter i regret having with this guy, i like him, and i dont think he wnts ne more, his m8 askd him a q, n it was what does he want with his love life, my guy answerd, any one hu i like, and any one hu likes me... i was sat next to him at that point, and we were holding hands, later we ended up doing it... was this idiotic?? i not to look on it with regret, but i think i am just frightened of being made a fool...?? some how??
tell me what you think xx
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Having what with the guy?? Did you leave a word out?? You said: "im not sure wheter i regret having with this guy" I'm going to assume you mean sexual intercourse, since you mentioned it at the end.
And I wouldn't say that was "idiotic". I don't view it as such. But that's the thing, it only matters what YOU think. It depends on YOUR morals, and YOUR views of the situation, ya know?? But I *DO* think that if you are even DOUBTING it now, it should NOT happen again. And I really can't say whether he's playing you as a fool, as I am not there to witness this. However, I understand your point completely!! How often do you get to see him?? And when you DO get to see him, do things get sexual EVERY SINGLE time?? If you took away the sexual perks from past visits... what else happened those times?? Did you talk much?? Have any in depth conversations?? Cuddle any?? See some movies?? Do you laugh and share jokes at all, or is he always preoccupied with meeting other women. In a case like this, I'd assume it's prettie easy to determine whether or not he has feelings for you. But as for WHAT THOSE FEELINGS ARE.. you'll NEVER know until you ASK HIM!! You can ASSUME you know his feelings ALLLLLLLLLLL you want, but the truth is.. that that's ALLLLL it will EVER be - an ASSUMPTION!! And what do you "do" about it??? How should I know??? That's all up to YOU! That depends on your morals and views, ya know?? Some women are perfectly okay with keeping a relationship strictly sexual [and I'm soooooooo NOT knocking on that ;D ;D ;D], but others find it crushing, if not disgusting as well. However, you've already stated that you like this guy, so I'm going to pressume that this hurts you a great deal, so why not talk to him about it? I realize this is easier said that done, but I think it's best to just flat out ask him. Don't beat around the bush, just say it. Just be bold, be honest, and go for it. If you want to know for a FACT what's in his heart, you MUST question him on this. Make it clear to him that you want to take your friendship 'to the next level'. And he won't be mad or angered, because it's a perfectly legitimate question. You're just asking for clarification that he will committ himself to you 130% in this relationship, JUST AS IT NEEDS TO BE, and he will understand this. Tell him all that he means to you; don't be afraid to get deep and personal, as this may enhance your chances with him. Hopefully, this will get him to open his eyes and accept all of the beauty and splender he has right infront of him. =]
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So you told me to "add" you by giving me your email address. I have no idea what the hell that means these days. I have an email address that you can email me at if you'd like, it's: lovespixiekandi@yahoo.com Just an email.. I don't do Yahoo Messenger. I have AIM though, if you wanna talk there? My screen name for that is: Simply x GirL
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