|
what to do..??
Hey there any one who is reading this, i used to like this guy quite badly, we hit it off rather well, unfortunatley i was young so i did not think to ask him out, as in out n about, he was always round the house, so it was impossible to get away from him, no to long and i ended up really enjoying his company, we used to make out with major flirting involved, he was always around my house because he was in my brothers band and could not get home so ended up stayn round, but when there wasn practise he stayed even then, thats when i thought, he had been home only to come back again the same day. about august we had this really romantic night, he had been on holdiay, and stayd round again when he got back, we never told any one. at gigs he would stare at me, for me to look and he would smile and look away, once he blew me a great big kiss, when people wer round but cudnt c. nothitng was ever confirmed, he had then got a gf, was in love with her, 5months l8r, they broke up cz she cheated on him, n we startd tlkn again, he may hav lost interest in me cz my family told him to basicaly go home for a while. bout may this yr, we ended up makin out again, this was accidental, and HE started the flirting cz i dint wnt to go down that road, we kissd, ther wer 3 othr people in the room, so i dint proceed, he askd if we cd go downstairs, i said no, so we remained kissing, we wer tlkn loads afta that, i met him again bout 2 months l8r, an was stuck at his house after a gig, 2 other people wer stayn, i ended up stayn on the floor, 2 lads on the couch, and he stayd on the floor with me, again HE started it, by meaningless poking, i wasn sure if i liked him that way any more at all, his m8s got the gist, as we made n accidentl loud kiss, we held hands, it was nice to have comfort, i no im looking for a guy hu will be there whenevr i call, for me to fall back on, i ended up havn sex with him, i wntd to tlk to him n stuff for the rest of the night, but his m8 shortly afta came bak in the room, i think i may be regretting what happened. i think i want more from him, or i may just be lonely. im quite worried, this has gone on too long...
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Its not good to get into relationships with your own brother. But remember... girls have feelings with guys after messing aroudn and alot of the time guys are just looking for "some". so i think your brother was just looking for a one night stand. Sorry, sis.
]
well it seems like you really care for this guy but your confused about it...tell him how you feel becuz he may feel the same way about you
]
You seem to know in heart that this guy can't give you what you want, that he wont be there for you unconditionally or be around when you call.
You can tell him what you need from a relationship if you really want one with him, if not, then the best thing to do is apologise, tell him you think you made a mistake and don't want that to happen agian. Then stick to your guns and wait for someone you do want. Don't compromise yourself agian.
]
More Questions: |