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My Friends Dad
About a week and a half ago,
I was at a friends house and her dad is SO nice. He's like my second dad. I even call him "Daddy Robertson". It was about 10:00 at night and me, my friend, my friends sister, and her dad were all watching IRobot on the couch. She has the kind of couch where it curves and it's like too couches connected. So my friend was laying on one side and my friends dad was laying on the other and my friends sister was laying on the floor with a blanket and a pillow. I had nowhere else to lay so I got a pillow and laid on "Daddy Robertsons" lap. (He was sitting up." So we were all watching the movie and laughing and having a great time. Then, my friend and her sister fell asleep. I was still awake and so was her dad. He put his arm around me like I was his daughter. Then, he took it too far. He put his hand down my shorts. I started feeling a little uncomfortable and I was like, "What is he DOING?" And I flinched a little, hoping he would take a hint. He didn't. I was starting to get scared. Then, he put it in there more. He kept touching my butt. I was almost crying but I didn't let him see me. Then, he took his hand out and said, "I'm sorry, I shouldn't be touching you like this." and he put his hand around me like he started in the first place. Then, he STUCK it in there again and started feeling around. Once again, he apoligized but this time he got up and asked if I was mad at him and I said "No." because I was scared. He got up and I pretended to be asleep and he paced around the room and rubbed his head like he regretted it, or something. Then, I woke up my friend after "Daddy Robertson" went into the garage and I said, "Beck, let's go into your room." and she said O.K. and we left into her room. An hour later, I heard "Daddy Robertson" going to bed and my friend was asleep so I went out to get a snack. About an hour after THAT, my friend woke up and she was wide awake so we plyed video games and stuff and we were drinking hot cocoa and we stayed up till 5 a.m and Daddy Robertsons girlfriend woke up and came out. She was getting ready for work so me and my friend fell asleep on the couch.
The next day, was Saturday and my mom came to pick me up and my mom and her dad are like... Best of friends but my mom thinks she might LIKE him. My mom is married and her dad KISSED my mom on the lips! My mom still likes him. I know it's wrong but my dad is lazy and he never says a word to me. I love him but if my mom got together with her dad, I'm afraid he might try to touch me again! I'm really scared to go over there anymore with her dad there. I know I will never sit or lay by him ever again. I'm sorry this is so long but I don't know how to tell my friend and I don't think she'll believe me. I don't want to cause anything big. What should I do! Please help me!
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Oh My God!! I was completely speechless after reading this. I just sat here in shock almost SHAKING for about ten minutes. I'm so stunned that I don't even know what to say.
I'm sorrie for what has happened to you. I'm shore that's NICE TO HEAR, but you and I BOTH know that that WILL NOT ERASE what happened. And what happened.... WASN'T RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Period. No doubt about it. And what happened..... IS ILLEGAL!!!!!!!! And what happened... is NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!!!!! HE was in the wrong! HE was the one who fucked up; NOT YOU!!!!!!!!!
I understand your dilemma here. You don't want to lose your best friend nor taint the relationship that your Mom has with him, but Hun.. YOU'RE NOT STUPID.. you KNOW what he did was a DISGUSTING, HURTFUL, CRUEL, VILE, and COMPLETELY UNACCEPTABLE act. You HAVE TO do something about this; you MUST!! You CAN NOT let this go unreported. YOU CAN NOT LET THIS MAN OFF THE HOOK!!
I KNOW you're scared. I can TELL you're frightened; you've made this QUITE CLEAR!!! But ALLLLLLLLLLLLLL the more reason to report this. Don't worry about what your friend may think of you, or if you should happen to destroy the friendship between him and your mother, but you know what... that would be the BEST thing that could happen - you MUST have your Mother on your side for this. And if she's ANY kind of Mother AT ALL.. or even a QUARTER of a ***HUMAN BEING*** she will take appropriate action!!
NO ONE is going to blame you, Hun. *ANYONE* who should see this as YOUR FAULT is a heartless, SICK, imbecile; WORSE THAN HIM for even **TRYING** to PROTECT HIM!!!!!!!!!
I pray to God you can find the courage within yourself to STAND UP FOR YOURSELF and DO SOMETHING ABOUT THIS!!!!!!! I hope to dear God you SEE all that is wrong with his behavior. I'm putting my trust in your to DO THE RIGHT THING!!!!!
Know that I am ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS, **ALWAYS** here for you if you EVER find yourself in need of a second opinion. And with all of this being said, I beg of you, PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE **PLEASE** lemme know how things turn out....
I wish you well! Keep your head held high and a smile on your face.. things WILL be okay, I promise you......
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