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Am i wrong?
Ok so heres the deal. Im going to make sure that i close up all "problems" so to speak with my friends. I am seriously feeling down and way down on myself with my ex. Its been a little over a month now since we've had no communication what so ever. I want to talk to him and i dont know how. My reasons will be obvious getting back together but also to have a friend back and much more that isnt all about getting back together. I just want to be happy again. I miss him terribly and ill never know if he misses me if i dont talk to him...heres the dilema. I know i dont have to feel this way if i talk to him but i dont want to interrupt his "growing up" time, but i think im going to call him anyways. Am i wrong for any of this?
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Sweetheart, you're incredibly brave! And definitely right! Though you might not want to mention getting back together as a couple, per say, but there's nothing wrong with calling him to chat as friends. In fact, I'd be willing to say that he'd probably like it if you called to talk. You know, "What's up? How're things going? Seen any good movies lately?" etc., etc. He probably misses you, and needs you to make the first step as friends. Don't mention getting back together as a couple until you're absolutely sure you're ready and he is too -- and that he wants to get back with you.
Maybe you could ask him if he wanted to hang out with you and a bunch of your friends. Maybe go bowling, see a good movie, or go out to eat. Whatever you wanna do. But doing something one-on-one wouldn't be a good idea. Not yet. Just spend a little time as friends, first, and then progress in your relationship from there.
Good luck, chica!
-FunnyCide
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