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jealousy
Hey! I feel so terrible. I am extremely jealous of my younger cuosins. Ok. They get all the guys just because their boobs are bigger. All my friends want to hang with them rather than me. i dont know what to do anymore. I cant get a boyfriend and it seems like no one likes me.
Maybe you can help... should i change myself from goody goody to ...? idk.
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hey! ok well first of all, if those people are like that...then you shouldn't be hanging around them, b/c you can definitely find better friends than that. anyone who is like that is shallow. you could also ask your friends why they would rather hang out w/ them than you...
and about not being able to get a boyfriend, if they can't like you for who YOU are, then they're not the right one's for you...and you don't need them. and also, you don't NEED a boyfriend..if one hasn't come around that is right for you, then don't worry about it. he'll come along soon! i promise you that. b/c i know what it's like to feel that way...w/ both of the problems you're having. i used to hate the fact that everyone else had bigger boobs than me, but i finally realized--that i need to be myself. and if people don't like me for who i am, then that's too bad...
and i also used to be upset b/c i couldn't find a guy that was right for me and then i just kinda "gave up" and moved on...and tried to not think about it, and then finally this one guy came along...my present boyfriend. we just love each other sooooooooooo much, w/ all our hearts...and i seriously think i've found the right person to be w/..hopefully for the rest of my life! but who knows, God might have other plans for me...but i truely do love him. and i'm positive that can happen to you too =) also..you can pray...i did that. i prayed that i could find someone who could be there for me when i needed them, someone who could make me soo happy. and i got my prayer answered w/ the most perfect guy!
it might take a while...it took a while for me. it might not happen the next day, but it could. and it might not happen in a couple weeks, but it could...it might take a couple weeks, even a couple months. but God will always make sure that he's there for you, and he will answer your prayers. just be patient hun, that's all i have to say...and DON'T CHANGE FOR ANYONE! be yourself =) i hope i helped, good luck!! =)
xoxo love always,
*rach
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