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Hey. I'm 15 (female) and I really like this 17 year old guy. We went out a couple months ago but then he broke up with me because I wasn't willing to do anything. I was only scared to lose him but yeah, we fought for about two months after that until he broke up with his girlfriend at the time. I was there for him through the whole thing so then we started talking again like normal. Well, we flirted A LOT online and we decided we were gonna hang out. We did and I started getting the feelings back for him. Then the one time I was over, he fingered me and the next day he said he was pissed at something I have no idea what, and that I should just try talking to him later. Well, I didn't because that kinda pissed me off, so it was about 2 weeks till I saw him again and once again, feelings came back. We hung out a lot after that and we got pretty close. Then 2 of the times I was over there, he fingered me again and I gave him head. The one time he wanted me to fuck him but our friends were right downstairs and they walked in on us before so I wasn't really too comfortable with that. So then he got all pissed again and one night he even said he hated me. It was about 2 months that we didn't talk, then I saw him at a carnival and I don't know why but when we made eye contact, I got the feelings back, yet again. And the whole night he kept staring or he was right beside me. I was going out with his one friend at the time so I don't know if he was doing that because he knows I liked him, and he wanted to tease me like "haha you can't have me". Or if he really likes me, he just wont admit it. Because every time we fight, the next time we see eachother in person, he wants to talk again and he pays attention to me. What should I do? Should I just try to move on or see if something might actually happen between us again. I like him a lot, and I even broke up with my boyfriend because I still had feelings for him. I'm sorry this is so long but I thought if I tried to explain more it would help. Please give me an honest opinion, I've asked my friends but they just give me sympathetic answers. Thanks a lot!
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That's what I'm here for..to give you an honest and truthful answer. You won't like what I'm going to say but this is how I feel about the situation. Any guy that will break up with you because you won't do anything with him..is a LOSER and he only wants sex. You have to be strong about it and tell him that if he really likes you than he'll respect that if you don't want to do anything, you're not going to. He's trying to put a guilt trip on you and pressure you into doing things. I don't think you need someone like that..You need to find someone who likes you for you. "Look for the guy that tells you you're beautiful instead of hot"..and don't fall for everything they say because a lot of them just want to get in your pants. There isn't a lot of real good guys you can find out there and you have to learn how to tell the difference. It won't ever be real no matter how real it actually seems. That guy is a jerk point blank. Hope I helped
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