Hey Sam,
I have this boyfriend and i can tell that he's like my soulmate.. yeah i know that sounds kind of cheesy but yeah.. i like have never felt that way for someone else before and i love him alot and i know he loves me but i still really think that he likes this girl who is his good friend and i asked him if he liked her and he said no and got kind of affended. What should i do? I mean i know i cant stop him from liking someone, but i just want to know the truth.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Samantha33605 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:23 am: I don't know how many times I can say this to you girls. You've all gotta realize that your boyfriend will be like best friends with another girl, as hard as it is to deal with your boyfriend being so close to another girl, you have to realize hes choosing you over ANY other girl to be with so you must mean a lot to him weather he tells you or not. Also your not just his girl your probably one of him best friends too. Most guys tend to hide their emotions and keep them to theirself. But I'm sure that if he liked this girl he would be honest with you, at least if hes a decent guy. Signs you can look for is when your hanging out of hes kinda keeping his distance, If hes avioding you, or if your not in his info. I know that sounds stupid but if he didn't like you you definitely wouldn't be in his info. Because when your dating someone and your in their info its kinda like announcing to everyone that your his and that he likes you ya know? If this doesn't help and it gets really bad you should do this say to him that you want you two to have a no secret relationship where you tell eachother how you feel like if you do something wrong or hes getting annoying you tell eachother. This helps so you can talk things out instead of just breaking up. And also if he doesn't like you and he promises this he'll tell you how he feels more. Now since you asked him and he said no, this means he doesn't and he probably got offended because, you should have trust in him. Believe in him and have faith that if he likes another girl he'll tell you not you having to ask him. Theres no relationship without trust. [ Samantha33605's advice column | Ask Samantha33605 A Question ]
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