my girlfriend and i have been going out for about 11 months now, and about 2 weeks ago, we decided that we wanted to take it to the next level. well, she told me that i was her first time, and that really ment alot to me, that she was going to let me have that pleasure. i know how important "the first time" is to a girl
here is the thing, i had heard from my friends and had read some where, that during/at the end of a girls first time, she bleeds... well, she didn't bleed at all, and we lasted a very long time...at least an hour and a half (which i've heard is a nice amount of time). this is a girl that has never been known to lie to me, and i trust her alot, but i wanna know why she didn't bleed. from reading your colum, you seem to have alot of good relation ship advice, and im asking, why she didnt bleed, what could have gone wrong in all this, and how i might confront her about it (if needed)
-thanks,15/m/tx
Additional info, added Friday July 15 2005, 1:37 pm: by the way, she is also 15...just in case that litle bit of info would make a difference.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? chaos answered Friday July 15 2005, 1:40 pm: Girls have hymens that cover their vagina while they are young. They can either break during sex, riding a horse or bicycle, or using a tampon. This is what makes girls bleed when they have sex the first time, and sometimes later. So she could very well have been a virgin without bleeding.
So I would trust in what she said because she probably didn't lie to you. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
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