ok toni, im not gonna say who this is for obvious reasons, but i have a problem. alright so i like this kid and his nmae is brendan. everyone knows him and everyone loves him. hes just one of those guys and hes the best guy that i have met in a long imte but idk what to do. like i always wanna hang out with him and stuff but im scared to ask. i know that your gonna tell me to like follow my <3 and all the shizz but im too scared to. ik that if i dont tell him how i feel then something great might pass me by, but what if i tell him adn then he doesnt really wanna talk to me again, like ya know maybe hed be uncomfortable and stuff. but i really need help tonnii hes so awesome and the other thing is, he usually goes for like the opposite of me, and whatever girl he wanted he could get like seriously anyone, and it really just like brings me down and like i said i wicked need your help toni sorry baout the length and confusion i know this doesnt really make much sense but i would really be grateful if you helped me out, thanks toni, youre the best(:
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? zagami answered Thursday July 14 2005, 9:25 pm: i definatly know that feeling. honestly, you just have to take chances. you cant keep talking about it, cause nothing will happen. its true and i know your reading this saying i cant do that, i cant take a chance, im too scared, but thats all it is. takin chances and hoping for the best. you know? see, when i used to look like a little mexican boy, obviously no american boys were gonna like me ;) i mean who would do that. honestly. but after time, guys did like me. which was weird, i know, but it was for who i was. if you told him you liked him, and he ignores you and dosnt talk to you, you really cant worry about that. guys will like you for who you are, not if your one of those "girls". i have seen ALL my friends get hurt from this, but afterwards they find someone else. and or they have their friends make them better. i mean if your scared to ask him to hang out.. get a bunch of people to hang out together. then it wont be as hard for you to ask. hmm.. this is a really tough situation and if i was dr. phil id think id be better, but im only Toni. and i wish i could make everyone happy. but i cant =/ just remember what you want isnt always what you get, but in the end what you get is definatly a lot better than what you wanted. -Toni- [ zagami's advice column | Ask zagami A Question ]
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