Hey Maddy...ok u know me but w/e i'm staying anonymous. My problem is that I have a guy that I met on New Years and we've hooked up a couple of times and even done things more than make out but we only get really close when we're alone and if we're around our friends(we share the same circle of friends) he shows no emotion towards me. But I really really really like this kid sooooo effing much! But I'm afraid he's just using me. And now for the real problem I found out another kid likes me and I like him too! This person is so sweet and we have so much in common, but I have a lot of things in common with the first person as well. So what do I do?!?! Do I find out if the first person likes me and then go for him or the second guy?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Sweetpmb9008 answered Tuesday July 12 2005, 3:37 pm: First of all, If I were you, I would want to find out if this guy was using me. Next time your with him, ask him questions about how he really feels about you etc. Make him feel same, and unworthy. If he turns out to be genuine... then I think you should stick with him. If he turns out that hes a jerk, I would go with the second guy.
Either way, I would try and get to know both guys better, expecially the 2nd guy, becuase things might not allways work out with the 1st guy, and you don't want to push away the relationship you had with the 2nd guy.
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