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what do i do when she says she needs space?
if i have violated her boundarys do i deserve another chance if i got proffesinal help and relized my problems there no abuse or addiction just me not resecting her boundiers.
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here's the thing, my answer depends on info i don't know. the amount of space is dictated by the length of the relationship, really...if you guys have been together for a long time (a year or longer) or you sleep together, then i can help you, cuz i can say to you, spend some nights alone, have a few days in the middle of the week where you guys can relax without necessarily being together every time you have free time. if it's early into a relationship, and you guys only go out like, every friday night or once a week, i don't know what dictates space. i fear she might be trying to break up with you and not being able to put it in words. did she actually say to you "you're violating my boundaries" or is she just giving off hints? your best bet would be to do what she says...give her space, even if that means going a week or two without seeing her. if you give a her a week or two though, call and have a phone or IM conversation at least once so you can keep up with what's happening while she's taking a breather. i don't see why professional help would be in the equation unless you've entered stalker territory.
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