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Question Posted Saturday July 9 2005, 12:53 am

Hey. I am 15/f. Well, see my boyfriend & I have been dating for 9 months & everything is going absolutely wonderful. We both love eachother (it seems that way & I am pretty sure he loves me) but I don't really know how to tell for SURE if he loves me. He acts like he does & it deff seems like he does, but do you have any advice on how to really tell?! I would appreciate the help.


Also, I am going to Virgina in about 15 days. & I wanted my boyfriend to go with me, but my mom said he can't. I have never been away from my boyfriend for more than a day the whole time we have been dating, so idk what it's gonna be like, or what he's gonna do without me around. I trust him with everything inside of me, but I kinda just got this bad feeling about being away from him & not knowing what he's doing. I mean & for some strange reason, I feel like stuff between us is going to change & I don't want it to. What should I do? I don't wanna be so paranoid, but I can't help it. PLZ give me some advice.

Thank You!!! =) Sincerely, CONFUSED *


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MELiixMARiiE answered Saturday July 9 2005, 1:03 am:
Well some ways to tell are if:

-He plain out just tells you he loves you
-Get you presents, maybe not humongusly expensive, because it's the thought that counts =)
-He shows alot of PDA ( public displays of affection ) cause sometimes boys won't show it in public
-He's always hugging you and holding your hands or something


..those are the only things I can think of right now. Because if you're pretty sure he does love you, then I'm sure he does. =) But even though he shows you he loves you, he also needs to make you feel it too cause then that's love right off the bat =) and since you love him too it seems it's that.. so I think you don't have to worry about telling if he loves you or not =)
And with the vacation thing.. what I would do is send him postcards every now and then. Telling him how vacation's going, and that you're thinking about him all the time and that you miss him and wish he could have come...and maybe get him some souveniers =) I don't think your relationship is gonna change after 15 days of you being gone, I think it'd only get better cause then the first time you see eachother after that, you'll be all happy and stuff because you guys missed eachother =) And yeah I can understand that little feeling you can get because you wouldn't know what he's doing.. but if he does love you.. I don't think he'd want to do anything to ruin that.. so I don't think you have anything to worry about there either. =) So really, I think everythings only gonna get better =) Hope I helped!!





Love,
MELii

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