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Well i'm not sure if this is under friendship or love life cuz it is kinda both. I've been best friends with this kid for a while, lets call him Mike. In the beginning we were just friends but he knew I liked him, and like he had this wicked sweet poem in his profile about a girl..and I found out it was about me. We didn't rush into a relationship because we figured we'd become closer friends first. We always flirt with each other and stuff but he also has a lot going on in his life, like with his family and stuff, so we never went out cuz of the stress and he didn't want to add the stress of having a girlfriend, which was fine. But a couple of weeks ago we got in this big fight because he hung out with these people that are a lot older than us at his house without his parents home. And then when we were fighting he told me that even if he did have a girlfriend it wouldn't be me and we are just friends. This obviously made me wicked sad because I didn't see when it went from us not going out because he has a lot going on to it being like me. I don't know if he only said that because we were fighting or cause he really meant it, because I have my own section on his buddy list, my own ringtone on his cell phone(which is like a love slowsong, which we have a lot of songs that he says reminds him of us)..and he calls me a lot, especially late at night. I always talk to him on the phone until like 1/2 in the morning! To me it seems like there is still something there to be more than friends, but its still because he has a lot going on. I don't know if I'm misinterpreting things and it really is just cause we are best friends. I don't know what to do anymore, should I continue to flirt like I normally do? or should I just step back and give him space and just be his friend and see where that takes me? Sorry this was so long, I hope you can help...
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haha no worries. well personally, this is what i think. everyone who has a guy best friend, has feelings for him once in their life. and thats the same both ways. and no matter how much you fight about you goin out, or him liking you, or you liking him, you'll still always be best friends. you dont have to stop flirting with him, cause it wont hurt if you do, but u can give him a little space. but dont back away too much so that space that you left turns so far that he wont even talk to you anymore. i know that sounds forever gay haha, forever gay? wtf.. lol but it happens. and if you want.. watch this big word.. nonchalantly put a poem in your pro about him who knows what will happen. and why dont you call me till 1 in the morning =( what am i not cool enough or something? pft. thanx. =P hope things work out, and anything else just drop a question. k? Love whoever you are. -Toni-
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