I came to you because you seem to have advice on relationships. okay this might get a lil confusing, but here i go: this kid steve likes my friend ellie. ellis went out with him like, before christmas. they met at a teen center and when he saw her, he graped her ass and she didn't say anything. He ended up asking her out and her sister morgen told her to say yes so she did. my friends and i were getting so annoyed thoguh because all she ever talked about was steve. then a week or two later, morgen told ellie that steve was cheating on her. morgen told her to breakup with him so, she did. and now like since the end of May, he is begining to like her again. in the begining of june, he asked her out. and she said i don't no. it's now july and she STILL hasn't given him an answer. ellie has a problem though, sha can't make her own decesions and if someone tells her to do something, she'll do it. she wabts to go out with him because she doesn't think he'll cheat on her again because morgen's boyfriend brian said that steve has never liked a girl in this way before. so thats why she wants to go out with him. the reason why she doesn't want to go out with him is because she nows that we((her friends))will get mad at her. she thinks that we won't want to hang out with her and that she won't be welcome at our houses. she does things that people tell her to. if we say no she'll tell him no. if we say yes, she'll tell him yes. what should we do? we want her to make her own decesions, but she can't make one.
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