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All last school year, from August to May like, first, i was going out with this guy dan. The first liek week of us being together he did something at my house and my parents sed we could never hang out again. he called my mom a few months later, apoliogsed to her, but she didnt change her mind. we went out the entire year being told we c0uldnt see each other. than in like late april, my mom saw us together after school and totally flipped her shit, and said we couldnt talk on the fone. (we already could only talk for a half an hour ). shit with dan overall was good, he WOULD lie to me about petty shit but than tell me how sorry he was and that he loved, and i always took him back. did i mention i lost my virginity to him and his to me? yeah..about that. he was my first. i loved dan more than anything, and than came the last month of our relationship. two of his close friends really liked me, and would only tell me, and dan didnt really care. but they were his two best best friends, and the last month of our relationship they told him that i was fooling around with someone in my math class. of course i wasent, i was trying to make it work with dan through his lies, but dan believed him. that same day, he was looking thru his cell fone next to me and there were tons of messages from girls. i told him that we were done, and later regretted it. he turned it all around on me, and told me we'd never be together agen cuz HE didnt wanna get hurt, when over the 9? months we were together he hurt me a good 4 or 5 times (including telling someone i despise that they'd be good together, getting high, and telling me i couldnt talk to some close friends ). i was absolutley devistated and i donno, no one really knows this but i lost like 10 pounds like that. i really tore myself up over that it was my fault we'd never be together again. i tryed getting happy again by going to the beach with two of my best guy friends and best girl friend for my birthday. wen i got home he left all these really mean messages calling me tons of names. now its like a month later, and my other close friend sammie and her boyfriend set me up with his best friend steve. im really happy, and i do love him, but its not like how i felt for dan. me and dan went thru so much and i ended up getting hurt and im afraid that i will again. steve is soo different than dan. steve is soo good to me, and he makes me feel really happy, in a differnt way dan did. dan was more about doing shit than being with me. with steve, i know i dont have to do anything if i dont want to. heres the bad part though :: last night dan told me he wanted to be with me and that he was sorry for everything..but he also sed that every other time. i guess what im asking you is, am i better off? && how can i stop thinking about dan all together?? he was my first true love and i know its gonna be hard, but i cryed so much over him and i really dont think i should be with him. also with steve, wen he gets mad, he like says stuff like he doesnt wanna see me and that i dont love him. like he makes me feel bad sometimes. i donno, i know no guys' perfect, but im just really afraid im gonna get hurt. your advice on the situation??
thanks soo much <3
xox amandaa
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Well this is a hard one. Its really hard to tell you what to do because you should really go with what your heart tells you. I mean I don't think its right that Dan tells you that you don't love him when he gets mad .. that really shows something. In my honest opinion .. as hard as it can be I think that you are deffenitly way better off with Steve. And why did it take Dan so long to realize that he wanted to be with you. Maybe you should ask him what hes been doing this whole time that you two were split up.
Also, if you love Steve then you should stick with him. But like I said before do what your heart tells you. Goodluck and let me know if you need anymore help !
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