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some = BAD!
well.. I am really REALLY tight with this one that I met not too long ago.
here, ill make names= me=me bff=christy and friend who is okay, but butting into mine and christy's friendship=patty.
okay.. so christy and i spend all our time together.. well practically. so then.. since christy feels bad cause patty has barely any friends, she invites her over sometimes... and she tells me to invite her over sometimes. well.. patty is nice and all... and i would consider her one of my best friends... but she gets on my nerves and it seems to me like she wants to take christy away. it annoys me to . and even though i know christy will remain bffs with me, patty keeps telling me rumors and bad stuff about her, and it annoys me cause she will never fit in.
how can i get her to back off and leave christy alone?.. neither of us like her being around us!
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Is this about me? Am I Patty!? But I don't really tell rumors...
Whatever.
Okay, well, Christy and you should just get together a lot. There is plenty of time for you two to have a blast together without inviting Patty every single time. After all, it IS summer.
But when school time comes around, you're going to have to tell her that she isn't wanted.. But don't use those words. Say something like, ''You're a really good friend to me, but sometimes I just want to hang out with Christy. And sometimes I want to hang out with just you. Some days, I like hanging out with all of us together.'' Just don't hurt her too much.
If you're too shallow for that, you could take the mean, easy route by doing things such as making friendship bracelets and don't make one for Patty. Harsh? Yep, and if you do that you'd be a horrible person. Remember, Patty doesn't have many friends, as you stated, so she probably feels some sort of loneliness. She might not be used to having solid friendships.
Give her another chance, that's all she might need.
Hope I helped.. fill me in on what happens!
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