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two friends and me caught in the middle
Ok basically whats going on is this one guy friend of mine is trying to be friends with a girl friend of mine, and the girl has been totally playing games with him. Ok it started out that he liked her as more then a friend, and she made it clear that she didn't like him like that so he decided to just be friends with her. Well not to long ago she has been changing big time, like totally not the same person, and in many ways...thats not a good thing. Anyway she recently told this guy that she didn't want to be friends with him anymore. Then when he asked her why she wouldn't give him an answer. Well since i'm the only one who is friends with both of them....guess who's caught in the middle of them. He left her alone for a while then sent her an e-mail asking her point blank whether or not they were going to be friends anymore since the girl can't seem to make up her mind. Well she told me that she was going to tell him no, guess what...when the time came she told him yes. Now were all confused and i'm sick of being caught in the middle of this whole fiasco...what should i do???? HELP
-Alcarinque
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Dear Alcarinque,
Not only is this a tough spot to be in since they are both your friends, but it can be pretty confusing but maybe it is time for your female friend to start being honest, using people isn't fair. Let her know how you feel and that you know its wrong. Tell her that she either needs to be honest with him or you will. Keeping your friends lies do you no good. Who knows maybe someday someone will do the same to you, and i am sure you would want someone to tell you. I wish you the best of luck!
Yours Truely,
ShellyAnne
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