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okay well i have a bf and hes like perfect. i love him so much. but the other day i was at my best friends house, and her older brother who'd going into 11th had some friends over. one of them, this boy Jason, i used to have the biggest crush on. and he kept like flirting with me and like staring at me. he knows i have a bf though. but then like i was laying on the couch and he went and layed on it behind me and put his arms around me. then after that he'd go upstairs with my best friends brother and then keep coming down and talking to me. and then he kept asking me to make out and stuff. and i didnt wanna cause i have a bf, and i didnt wanna screw things up with him. so i said no to making out. and then hes like can't i just have a kiss? so i did. and we kept kissing. and then we were like sitting on the couch and he had his arm around me and was holding my hand. oh my god it was so awesome. and he kept telling me to dump my bf and stuff. and he kept like saying god why do you have to have a bf. and hes like 3 years older than me. he's going into 11th grade and im going into 8th. and hes gorgeous and like every girl in the school likes him!! hah. but my friend was sleeping so she doesnt know about this at all. no one does but me and him. and my best friends older brother kept telling me Jason liked me and wanted to hook up and stuff. idk if they were drunk or something? but now im really confused. cause i love my bf, but now i think i might have a little something for Jason.. can you please help. thanks. ugh plus i cant talk to any of my friends about this cause they'd probably say something to my bf. please help im so confused..
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I would think about each of them. How they make you feel, does your boyfriend kiss you and cuddle with you and stuff like this Jason guy did? Because if your boyfriend doesn't do that, then maybe I'd start leaning towards Jason, because come on. Every girl wants to be hugged and kissed and hold hands and stuff =P But then again, another though kinda comes to mind. He's three years older, so you guys won't even see eachotehr in school... which means he could talk to other girls and ya know.. get with them and stuff...and then the fact that EVERY girl likes him makes that kinda even worse, because then he knows he can get almost like ANY GIRL. Well what I would do is maybe just stick with your boyfriend for awhile and just kinda talk to him, hang out with him, and see how you feel when you're around him... if Jason makes you feel better than your boyfriend does than maybe you should dump him =/ but I'd seriously think about the him getting almost any girl thing.. cause I mean, you would never know =/... hope I helped!!
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MELii
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