zagami, i have a friend, we'll say her name is fran. she is such a nice kid. i love her to death. but right now fran has another friend who has been a jerk to her for like ever. but fran still doesnt want to admit this. fran wants to keep making up with her other friend even though i know her other friend isnt worth the time. ive tried talking to fran about it. but it seems like she doesnt understand that instead of putting all her itme an effort into her other jerky friend she could be making friends with other better people. i dont think fran realizes what an awesome outgoing person she is. idk what to do. should i tell fran what im telling you? idk. please help.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? zagami answered Thursday June 30 2005, 1:50 pm: wow.. lol sorry. I know exactly what your going through. And don't worry, fran realizes it. Oh does she ever.. and yeah, talk to her. Tell her what you told me. I'm in the same position right now, except i'm fran =/ And i have this friend who i don't wanna lose but then again everyone wants me to forget about her. The more you hang out with her more she will forget about her other friend. I mean summer is here, things change so fast. DOn't be mean about it though, just tell her you care and so many other people do too more than her other friend. Make her be on your side, but whatever you do, dont be mean to fran. Everyone does that to me and it just pushes me away from everyone more =/ But the people who are nice about it i appriciate more cause i know they dont wanna hurt me. I get a lot of "i'm done with you toni" and if fran gets that, who knows what might happen. Just talk to her though, she'll understand. Sooner or later. Time can be nothing but your enemy, has been for me. But in the end, it always works out. That is definate. -TOni- [ zagami's advice column | Ask zagami A Question ]
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