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hey.alright well .. i dont know if you can help but there is this kid that i like && he likes me alot i guess too..we`ve went out like 2 times already and i broken up with him both the times becuase hes soo quiet .. he never talks to me other than online.. he never calls me. he comes over though .. but with his friends and its annoying because he doesnt even ask me if he can come over. he just comes over. and sometimes im not even prettied up && dressed yet.. and i just went away to florida for a while and he text me 398247829374 millon times a day saying how he misses me and stuff. and i miss him too.. and saposofly hes gunna ask me out again.. what should i do? i mean i like him alot and everything but i dont know what to do anymore.. please helppppp!! thanks <3
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Okay about the talking thing ; sometimes you'll have to make up some of the conversation, because boys aren't the biggest conversationalists most of the time.. but you shouldn't have to every single time.. he should start stuff every now and then too. Ask him what he wants to talk about and if he says," I don't know.." then just start something, but make it something he'll have to answer like personally you know what I mean? Like," Oh that makes me think of the time.." or something like that.. and then that'll get the conversation going about that subject. And about the coming over thing ; you should REALLY talk to him about that.. I mean he shouldn't just WALK right over to your house without asking.. what if you're doing something like eating dinner or something? So if/when he does ask you out again just mention this stuff just be like," Well I would like to go out with you again, but the reason I broke up with you the first two times was because you need to talk to me more. Make up some of the conversation.. I don't want to have to do it everytime. It makes me feel ignored and that you don't wanna talk to me or something. And please just stop walking over to my house..I wanna look nice and stuff, so call me before you do..ok?" .. not EXACTLY that, but something maybe like it. Hahaha but I'd just talk to him about it so then if you two do go out again, he'll know to talk more and stuff...hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii <3
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