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16f, I have this friend that is in a relationship with my other friend, but this so called relationship is not working so well. The guy tells me that he wants to break up with her but then he tells me he doesn't. I think he needs to make a choice a stick with it. If he wants to break up with her i think he should tell her instead of going back and forth with the disicion and keeping her in the dark and letting her think that things are working out and their not. But i told both of them that i am not in the situation any more and that i am offering no more advice so i can't really tell him how i feel about his little situation. I told them that i was out of it because it seemed like while i was trying to be a good friend to one i was being a bad friend to the other. And that went both ways. so, my delima, should i tell them what i think or should i butt out like i said i would.
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You know, i jus answered a question similar to urs. I think you should speak your mind. If this guy is your friend, you shouldent keep anything from him. But on the other hand, im pretty sure you have known one of them longer than the other. As far as being a good friend to one and a bad to the other, that all depends solely on you. I also think that you should make them work things out between each other. Since you are a friend to both of them, they are gonna run to you when they need someone to talk to but more than likely one of them will start going to someone else now since he probley see how you truly feels. Thank you for your question and i hope what i said was helpful
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