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Alright.I wasn't really sure about getting advice from you at first, but, I really need it.Ok, my boyfriend and I have been together for 7 months now and I feel like things are going to fall apart soon.We have our 'ups and downs' from time to time but we always get through them, but now my problem is that I feel like he's ignoring me whenever I talk to him on AIM.He still tells me that he loves me, that he misses me, and that he wishes that he could be with me, but I don't know if I can do this anymore.We're both really shy and I know it's hard for him to find things to talk about with me, but I wish that I didn't have to pick the topic of out conversation for once =/.I don't know, it might be because it's summer and we don't get to see eachother very much since we don't live really close to eachother.But if you have ANY advice to give me, I would be EXTREMELY grateful..Oh yeah, and I'm a girl and I'm 14.Just thought I'd let you know.
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Well see, if he WANTS to be with you.. then I think he should try I mean it's summer..no school, no nothing, so I'd think there'd be time to spend with his girlfriend...cause I'd think he'd be able to maybe get a ride over your house or somewhere close to both of you two every now and then. But first,my advice is that'd I try to get him to talk much much more. Be like," So what do you wanna talk about?" or.." Wanna do something?".. Because that's how boys are sometimes. They can't think of anything to talk about, so you have to start... but not you shouldn't have to EVERY single time. But then maybe if it continues this way, then I'd let go of him, because I don't think anything would get any better/worse... and it'd be kinda pointless having a boyfriend over the summer that hardly talks nor sees you cause you could spend that time trying to find someone who will actually do those things. But first, just trying getting him to talk more, and try to see if he can come over or if you can go over his or something...and then see what happens. But if you don't want to dump him either, that's your decision. Hope I helped!!
Love,
MELii <3
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