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meeting people
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ive never made out or kissed a guy or anything. im not prude, ive just never really been in that situation. people tell me all the time that im pretty, i was a model, i am not a bitch, and i dont understand why guys dont like me or anything. it just seems like everytime i meet a guy i dont have a chance to do anything. i met a guy on vacation that i really liked and he liked me, but i met him on the last night i was there. stuff like that always happens and guys at my school dont ask girls out because theyre all idiots. i go to a private school and theres like 100 people in my grade. 300 people in the high school. i dont really hang out with my school friends over the summer. how can i meet guys??? this is seriously pathetic and dont tell me that i just have to wait for the "right" guy. im sick of waiting and i dont want to be a sophomore in highschool without ever even kissing a guy...helpp
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actually a lot of guys like girls whove never been kissd at least the ones i know bsides do you want your first kiss to be by some guy you dont care for then youll have that memory forever and if you kiss to many guys you mayb calld sluty since you were also a model i know that shouldnt have anything to do with it but if your pretty have a public background and kiss alot of guys theyll draw their own conclusions as will the gossip wave of the girls in the world today its pretty amazing to be a sophmore in high school and an innocent girl at that hope i helpd
ps i wuold do anything to have my first kiss back
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Hey, i know some tips that i can give you that i saw in a magazine...
How to start conversation in an appropriate way?
It's really very simple. Just go strike up a conversation with him. You probably know something that the two of you already have in common, so go talk to her about that.
That is assuming you two already know each other a little and aren't complete strangers.
If you are, then I would suggest a simple introduction at first.
Then you can follow that up with a few casual flirt smiles; and then go strike up that conversion. Simply put, the worst thing that can happen in the first place.
On the other hand, the best that can happen...
Well, that's an entirely different subject...
So in other words, you've got nothing to loose and everything to gain. So just go for it.
When talking to him, don't worry about making any kind of impression. Don't try to think of what you'll say before you say it. Just be you 100% and if that’s what he likes, then you'll get that date.
Steps to staring a conversation from the ground: top
First,
1. Take the initiative.
For instance, don't wait for someone to start talking to you, introduce yourself.
People are usually relieved when you take the initiative. In those rare cases when they are not pleased, you know you did your best to be friendly, so the problem must be with them.
Either way, you avoid feeling shy because you are doing something, and focusing on something outside yourself.
2. Second, focus on the situation around you
You have to give up worrying about what impression you are making. You will create a much better impression by being engaged than by saying something clever. If you have to start talking on a new topic, talk about something about the immediate situation.
Try to make it positive.
If you speak in negative terms, people you do not know will tend to worry that you will be talking negatively about them next.
2. Here are some good ideas "how" to start:
- Ask for activities (such as dancing or roller coaster rides) where you'll have mandatory physical contact (in a natural way, without having to think about it first)
- Start with momentary incidental contact, like a touch on the shoulder or arm.
- Start with easy things. That doesn't mean too much for you, so you'll communicate easier.
What if you don't know him?
Well you'll have to rely on some romantic ingenuity to throw some signals his way. Whatever you do, DON'T do a "secret admirer" act. Maybe the first time, ok. But if he's not interested and you carry it on too long, you'll be disappointed.
Each person has a different way of interpreting things.
Well basically there are the two options:
1) Not to do anything, OR
2) Be initiative - in which case there is the danger of rejection.
Hope I helped!
~Brina~
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hey i have the problem... im 16 and never made out i mean its fine...I mean i dont care that other people know and im not a prude.. your school seems small but try finding a guy in s school where theres 20 people in your grade and 80 in the whole school. lol
wel anyways....
all i can tell you is its eaiser for guys to like you if you open up alittle bit more... be their little sister before gushing out your feelings and stuff....by the sounds of it most guys think your hot they are probally to scared to ask you out to like hte movies or something... which leaves it up to you if you like a guy then go for it !! that way the guy who ever it is can know that you like him and he wont be scared if he gets rjected !
hope i helped
LisaLeilani
Ps. You can meet guys by getting a job ( you have to get a work permit first) maybe joinig like the ymca for summer... Taking inclas drivers ed since your around that age...get on some sport teams ect ....
LisaLeilani
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