Hey Crisco, this is ur good buddy Chris from applbees. Help me out here man. there is this girl and i am so in love with her...we dated for a while and her dad doesnt like us dating so he forced her to break up with me. Shortly after me and her were broke up she got a boyfriend...i didnt see her for like 3 months and then one night i called her and told her i wanted to come by and give her a hug cuz i havent seen her in a long time and i ended up gettin there at like 2am and staying till like 6...we fell in love all over again, but yet she is still with this guy. Then again a few weeks ago we have been talkin on the phone and stuff and i told her i wanted to see her again and she said ok and i went to her house at 1 and stayed till 5....when i left she wrote me and told me that she fell in love with me all over again and ever sence then we have been closer than we have been over the last few months, she tells me she loves me and we do all the things we used to when we dated, except she is still with that guy....man i love her so much and i want to spend the rest of my life with her i just dont know what to do...give her up and wait for her or do everything i can to get her back...i also know of her b/f cheating on her and i dont know if i should tell her or not...she tells me she wants to spend the rest of her life with me but this other b/f thing is confusing...help me out here bro
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? CriscoZills answered Monday June 27 2005, 1:25 am: Chris, it seems as if something is not right on her part. If she truly is in love with you, it should be no problem for her to leave her current boyfriend. I've heard of you talk about this girl, so I know your intentions are completely admorable. However, I'm not sure of hers. Leaving the boyfriend she is with now should be her number one priority. Normally ultimatums aren't a good thing, but in this case, you need to find out if she's toying with your heart or if she really means it. Tell her you'd like her to break up with her boyfriend and be with you. It shouldn't be a difficult choice for her. I wouldn't bring up him cheating on her because there's already enough reason for her to break things off with the guy. I hope it all goes well. [ CriscoZills's advice column | Ask CriscoZills A Question ]
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