You guys have given such good advise but It's so hard to do it. I know this guy still loves me but he can't come back to me, because of his family. What can I do??? I even tryed to tell him I met someone and got married and moved and I thought that would of worked but no it didn't , Well in his eyes he probably thinks I have moved on by saying that and then by me telling him that There's no chance for us!! I cut communication with a women ffriend that works with him and she would actually tell me he is dating and enjoying his life and that would kill me!!! then I thought of course she is going to tell me this , she is not going to tell me he is sad!!! right????
He truely Loved me and I screwed up,he feel s I treated him like a do and I used him!!! I just can't believe he has moved on and started a new relationship after everything I have done to him??? Truthfully I thought him geting into another long term relationship would be the last thing on his mind??????
What do I do??? Do you think he still cares???
Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Heptune answered Thursday June 23 2005, 11:17 am: I think the only thing you can do in this situation is sit down with this man and level with him. Tell him the truth about what you have done and how you feel. Ask him what he's doing and where he stands. Stay calm and non-confrontational no matter what he tells you. You may not like what he has to say, but at least then you will know and won't have to wonder anymore. On the other hand, if he wants to start up the relationship again, then you and he can figure out how to get around the family problem. [ Heptune's advice column | Ask Heptune A Question ]
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