im 15 and me and my boyfriend got a little too "happy" and well we started to somewhat have sex but stopped after about 4 thrusts because we got scared. i got my period since and i have no symptoms of being pregnant...but once he starts to finger me its fine if its for a short period of time but if it gets too long he says he feels like he scratched something and all the sudden i get a mucus like brown discharge that leaks all over. i dont know if i have something wrong with me or if its a result of the fooling around with the sex or if im pregnant or what. can you help me out a little? id love it if you could. as i said im 15 so i dont really want to have to go and ask my mom to get me to a doctor to check it out or anything. ack.
So that's one worry off your mind. As for the unusual discharge - and the lack of your normal smell/discharge - well, you're probably going to need to see a doctor. I completely understand you might not want to approach your mom about this, but I wonder if you can have her make an appointment for something else - you know, getting to the doctor without having to tell you things you'd rather she didn't know at this point.
Your other option is to search for 'Planned Parenthood' and see where your local clinic is. They offer free advice and support for sexual health issues, and you could make the appointment yourself.
The reason I advise this is because it's never a good idea to mess around with your health; plus, I'm not sure what this new discharge is.
If you were fingered only a day or so after your period ended, the prolonged stiumulation could have caused your lubricant to 'wash out' any blood that was left from your period. On the other hand, the semi-sex with your boyfriend might've caused a small tear and it's being aggravated.
If a tear has happened at any point, whether from his penis or his finger, it's important to get tested for STDs. Your discharge changing could be a signal that something isn't quite right.
So my best advice? Figure out a way to see a doctor and get your mind put to rest.
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