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okayy um theres this guy that i used to going out with back in january then we broke up liek mutually and both decided that we wanted to be friends with benefits i guess and liek he started liking me again then all of a sudden one of his friends started talking shit about me andd i found out and then i guess he stopped liking me then moved on to liking one of my best friends. i kno hes an asshole but i still like him alot and cnt get over him and i dnt want to talk to him about it cuz i kno ill sound like a complete idiot. how do i get us back together again
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If you talk to him about it, you WON'T sound like a complete idiot. In fact, you'll sound mature and wise because you'd be handling the situation in a professional way. Snaps to you if you can do that. He'll be left as the immature one, especially if he doesn't care for what you have to say. Maybe he WILL care though, and then we would know he isn't a complete jerk and wants to get back together with you. However, in the words of Maroon 5, "it's not always rainbow's and butterflies, but compromise that moves us along." Condsider this: he fell for one of your best friends. Did she fall for him too? If she did, you cannot, i repeat CANNOT screw that up for them. They like eachother, she is your best friend, and you just don't get in the way of your best friend's relationship blossoming. HOWEVER, if you are not comfortable with your best friend liking him becuase he used to be YOUR ex (Yes, ex's are SO off limit to best friends in my book) then you need to tell her. Let her know that it's uncomfortable for you. If she is one of your best friends, she should ditch the guy and hang out with you instead. This of course means that you can't have him either. Chicks before dicks, isn't that the golden rule? You've got a lot on your plate to think about. Good luck!
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