well its not that he gets too touchy it is just constant! it makes me uncomfortable because his mom is around and his little sister! i dunno maybe i am over exaggerating but i have been hurt alot in the past and i can see that i am pushing myself away from him if u understand that at all! i mean i feel like he is pushing me a little and to be honest i dont want this relationship to be sexual! i want things to stay the way they are because more times than not sex ruins relationships and i dont want that to happen! i am scared that things are gonna turn out like they have before and i cant see myself being able to handle that again! thanks for being a great listener
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? whatnext answered Friday June 17 2005, 11:43 am: yeahh i do understand that, like i said if this is something you dont want, you need to clue him in on a couple of things... did you talk to him about any of this yet? besides just saying stop...? most guys dont realize that they are being a little pushy, so let him know. and i know this may be tough to hear, but from my past expirence, i had to learn that not all guys are the same. it sounds like both of you need to sit down and talk about things. like i said before... maybe he thinks thats what a "normal" couple does... and just let him know that you're not into that kind of stuff. i hope i helped... any other questions, you know who to ask. [ whatnext's advice column | Ask whatnext A Question ]
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