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my girlfriend latly has been ignoring me, and she has a real short fuse with me. Whenever i try to do somthing that shows i love her, she takes everything the wrong way and is like "why are you doing that" or somthing. we thought it was PMS a while back but she's been like this a while now. then i cant ever really show any affection for her, because (well i think anyway) that she feels crowded with this girl, who might i add is completly obsessed with her...the girls name is Ally, and all is CONSTANTLY hugging on, or holding onto my girlfriend and i think thats part of the reason she is acting the way she is. i cant pull her away for a long enough time to give her our first kiss and we've been together for 4 months. she doesnt ever really want to cuddle durring any movies at my house, because if ally happens to be there then ally is on her, and she doesnt want to leave/be rude to ally...sometimes she will blow me off for no apperent reason at all or with some excuse. is there anything i can do to make my girlfriend pay a LIL more attention to me, or is it pretty much hopeless?
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Don't give up completely yet. By the way, sorry it took me a while to get back to you. I'm having internet server problems.
First of all I think you have every right to expect time alone with your girlfriend. That means Miss Ally needs to find something else to do once in awhile. If the girlfriend can't accommodate your wishes then you will need to decide if you can live with things as they are.
Most girlfriends can't get enough attention from their boyfriends! That's why I find her behavior just a little strange. A lot strange as a matter of fact. I can understand a girl not being ready for sex...but kissing and cuddling and all that is just fun!
I do think you need to have a long, very serious talk with your girlfriend. You need to tell her what you expect from a girlfriend. You need to have the talk with her alone minus Ally. If she can't agree to your terms, THEN, I think it is wasting your time to put up with the nonsense. You would make any nice girl a great boyfriend, don't waste any more time on someone who doesn't want to be a good girlfriend.
I had a similar question a couple of days ago with diffrent names. IF the girl writing for her friend was yours ever considered the friend who wrote about your situation a couple of days ago? She seemed to care about you a lot. OK, I'll knock off the match making! Good luck and let me know how it works out for you. :)
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