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Relationship
Hi!!
I have been having problems with relationships, I was married at one time and I also was in an engagement relationship to get married. Right now I am alone and I am very depressed right now. I know this is my fault with my relationships fail. I have panic disorder and it seems when I would have a panic attact I push everyone away from me???? Especially my last relationship my ex-fiancee, he was very good to me , he would of gave me the world!! Then I think maybe I haven't metthe right person I am 40 years old and I am a very attractive girl, I have a wonderful son by my ex- husband and he is 13. Me and my ex-husband try to get along for our son but, we just can't communicate??? I can but he can't??? Will I ever meet that right person?? I don't want to be alone anymore!!! Where do you meet that right person?? I don't liike bars, or clubs seen???
I still have feelings for ex fiancee but he won't give me the time or day!! its been over a year now , I have n ot heard from him , I have done everything to try to talk to him and he avoids me??? What do I do??? we were together for almost 4 years???? I know his family had alot to do with him ending this relationship!!!!
I have also another situation, I have had redness on my neck with itchy little red pimples and I did go to a dermatologist and she gave me cream thats not working really!!! I have another appt with another dermatologist thurs. It seem like when I get nervious or upset and I get hot , I flush in my face and my neck???? Could it be from my panic attacks???? or just my skin, I am very very fair skin person, What can it be???
Please I hope you can give me some advise concerning my relationships and the problem with my skin (neck)
Thank you so much
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Hello, I am glad that you wrote. I think I may be able to help you. I think you should go and see an naturopathic physician. he/she can help you naturally deal with the panic attacks and the skin inflammation. they may very well be related, but not in the sense that you think. They may both be symptoms of the same disorder. To help the panic attacks, he/she may recommend St. John's Wort or L-Theanine or Noni Juice. All have worked wonders on this disorder. The skin inflammation could very well be a digestive problem, and you need to build up your health and your immune system so that your body functions normally. As far as your relationships, I can't advise you based on what you told me. Idon't have enough information. But I think a good way to meet a nice guy is by doing volunteer work. I find most guys are selfish, but if you find a guy that volunteers as a big brother, or at a food bank, or at a church or hospital, he must be a nice guy. Performing volunteer work yourself, will get your mind off yourself, and you will soon begin to feel so much better about yourself. As you accomplish things, and people come to rely on you and appreciate you. You will feel better about yourself, and you will have more confidence. Confidence if very sexy and men are attracted to confident women.
So you need a total health make over (naturopathic physician) and a total emotional make over (volunteer work) Give yourself some time to grow in these two areas, and when you are walking around each day happy and with a smile on, you will be very attractive. Not only are men attracted to women who are confident, but they are also attracted to women who are smart and interesting. Your volunteer work will give you something to talk about. You'll meet many new people. You won't be wrapped up in your problems. You'll be better company.
I not this works. I work and volunteer with children, and I belong to some business networking groups. I meet men all the time, I am 52 years old. I am constantly being approached.
It can work for you. go for it.
PS As a quick fix, trying putting cold buttermilk on that rash. It works well. And it won't harm. You can get it an the super market. Cheap too!
Michele
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