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what is wrong with me?
i talk to guys, and i'm a girl. i'm 15. i constantly tell them my problems, and then, so that they won't leave because they're annoyed at my talking, i help them masturbate (all online). this guy has been really sweet to me for the past three years. we're both virgins, and he really wants to do it. so i told him yes.
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WHy are you starting out your life just being a sex object for men? Are you that starved for attention. Of course that boy wants to do it. They all want to do it. And they'll do it with any girl who is willing. It doesn't make you special, it makes you easy. They'll do it with you. Then dump you. That is the least that will happen. Sometimes they do it with you, get you pregnant then dump you. And then call you a bitch all your life because you expect them to support their kid, and be a dad. Or you go through the emotional trauma of having an abortion, all by yourself, except maybe you have to ask your parents to pay for it. Or they do it with you then give you a disease, then call you the whore and dirty.
There is so much more to life than boys and sex. I am advising you to stop looking for this kind of attention. Get an education, go to college, and have a career. Be smart and confident and have the money you need to survive, then all the men will want you and you can pick and choose the one YOU want. As long as you maintain a good reputation, you will be the one who can choose who you want when you are ready. These boys on line are just telling you how wonderful they think you are, you are so sweet, and nice to help them out with their fantasies. Look around you. Does life look like a fantasy. NO reality is you need a good education, you need a good job, you need a husband who loves and respects you if you are going to have a good life. A home, a car, money for bills, for food for utilities and to support those kids you are going to have. And please keep a better eye on your daughter than your parents do, so that at the young age of 15, she has more of a future ahead of her than being a receptacle for young men who want to get laid.
You think you have problems now......you're just asking for more. I don't care what your problems are, I know that families and parents can be real jerks, but if you follow in their footsteps you'll have the same kind of life that they have. YOu can break the cycle by getting an education and getting out as soon as you are 18. That is what I did. It made me strong and I survived better than they did.
Please, when you answer, and say "I was just lying." I don't really do that, I just wanted to see what you would say", and then leave me a bad feedback......remember this, you are the one with the problem. I have everything I need, and I don't do this for the feedback.
Michele
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