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a good way?
hi im 15 f and never had a boyfriend or even kissed a boy. what is a good way to get a boyfriend, even though i dont hang out with boys hardly?
and everytime i go near boys i kinda get all butterflies in my stomach!! what does this mean?!?!
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If you start to get butterflys in your stomach it means that you like the bot so u should just start by being friends with him and then you ask him to go somewhere with you and then you ask him out!
*~Good Luck~*
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confidence. that is the most attractive quality guys find in a girl. remember that and push yourself to be fun, smiley and crazy!
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Heyyy... I have many fRiends who aRe 16 - AND OLDER and they STILL haven't kissed anyone!!! Honestly, theRe's no Reason you should woRRie about this. Just because SOMEONE else has done ceRtain things does NOT mean you should have alReady done them also!! You have PLENTY of time still, and it's definitely NOT uncommon foR people to have been thRough the same thing. But be it 12, 17, oR 20... it's not as big of a deal as you might assume. I know *TONS* and *TONS* of people who aRe aRound 20-21, and have still neveR even held hands with someone. HoweveR, if theRe's someone you know well and may slightly like, and you figuRe he just doesn't feel the same, then you *DEFINITELY* need to confRont him on this. Just be bold, be honest, and go foR it. It's the *ONLY* way to know FOR SHORE if he likes you oR not; you can *ASSUME* he does all you want... but you'll neveR know exactly how he feels unless it's coming stRaight fRom his lovely face. And if you'd like to spRing foR new guys entiRely, just tRy going up to one and giving it youR all! Just RemebeR to always be confident, and to SMILE, SMILE, SMILE! See, I have NOOO pRoblem appRoaching people, because I believe that I can do anything, so I just push my feaRs aside and go foR it!! I'll walk up to some man in the mall and tell him flat out, "You'Re hot"... and it always gets us talking. Why does it always get us talking?? Because confidence is sexy, and even if he's involved, oR not wanting a Relationship with you specificly, any man who is a QUARTER of a man will speak with you foR just having enough guts to go foR it! I have complete faith in you; and I think you should too. Go get 'em, TigeR! =D
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You can't force these things. You really have to find some one that catches your eye and flirt a little. See if he's interested.
Tell your friends about a crush and maybe they can help you.
And the butterflies? Thats all normal, pretty much evert single m/f gets nervous around the opposite sex.
Just don't go out and get a boyfriend just to be kissed. I tried that once and it ended up in ruins. Yah, so i'm 14 i've had two boyfriends that lasted less then 2 weeks and I havent been kissed. So I know how you feel. Just make sure you find a guy and like them for who they are not because you want to be kissed.
good luck
~kooka
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