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i have this guy friend that i recently met and i really like him. we talk like everyday online & on the phone & its really great but we're running out of things to talk about! i feel like he is losing interest. does anyone have any ideas?
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yo , theres not system so don't even bother. go out with a dude who u neva eva lose convo ovaa.. im outta here ..
peaceee </3
love. i hope i helped~
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maybe it just was a fling?
im sure you havent talked about everything..
have you talked about..
fav food?
fav drinks?
child hood stories?
best parties
worse partie
weather (hahah!)
imbarrising moments.
funny moments
happyest moments
fav sprots
fav. cars
family
friends
things that you love
things that you hate
things that bugg you
things that you dont understand
when you need help.
fav. subject.
least fav. subject.
daringest things you did
and so on and so forth.
best of luck <3
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K, so I talked to my ex on the telephone foR the fiRst time in oveR a yeaR about an houR ago... things ended alittle shakey with us because theRe was something up with his fiancee at the time... Haha, now seee... if *THAT* doesn't sound like a Reciepe foR awkwaRd moments... I don't know *WHAT* does!!! It was gReat though, I asked all soRts of questions about his life, and made silly comments, and I thought it went Really well. He called, and I answeRed saying his name, then he Responded with a "yep", and I asked "How aRe you" - that's the fiRst step... bReaking the ice. Also, make shoRe YOU ask it, because some guys use the Response to that line with something cute, such as "betteR now" oR something like a "Thankful that I get to talk to you" type-of-deal. Now you didn't include an age, oR how well you know this guy, so I don't have much to go on heRe, but I can tell you to fish foR a lot of details with the questions you ask. FoR instance, my ex told me he moved. I asked if the house was "pRettie", then asked if it was "cute" and if he was happie theRe. He said he was, and I asked him about his bedRoom. He went on to say the size of it, and I asked what fuRtnituRe it contained. You get what I'm saying... I asked about his fuRnituRe.. it's Really like a 'who caRes' type of question honestly, but it keeps it fun and keeps it goin'. I don't know if this guy has a job oR not, but if so, ask him if he's happie theRe... and what exactly does his job entail, and if he has tons of fRiends.. and if theRe's a giRl he likes... and it's impoRtant to say that like you'Re just cuRious, but it doesn't matter to you... that way, he's pRobably moRe likely to give you an honest answeR, and you can see wheRe you stand and how good youR chances aRe. If you'Re on the youngeR side, say 12, 13, oR 14, talk about old t.v. shows, such as "GUTS", "Wild N CRazy Kids", "Hey Dude", "SailoR Moon", "ARe You AfRaid Of The DaRk" and so on. Also, a good question... ask about his day!! I always ask people about theiR day, but I make them go into detail... eveRy single detail fRom the moment they woke up til the veRy second I asked -- this usually keeps things going, because theRe's alot to be commented on heRe also. If you don't know this kid too well... tRy getting to know him by asking him what his middle name is... wheRe he was boRn.. if he plays any instRuments and things like that. TheRe's almost always a whole lot to be said to just about eveRyone!! I can only RemembeR two people in my life that I could just could not keep a conveRsation with, so my questions and techniques woRk Really well as faR as I'm conceRned!
TheRe's LOTS to talk about when you think about it. Goodluck!! Hope I helped!! =D
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