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Question Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 6:42 pm

You helped me when I was having trouble choosing between my childhood crush(Michael) and my true love(Aaron) Of course I chose aaron. NOW I started dressing in black for a few days to annoy my teacher. (She hates black.) These guys (DJ, Travis, Michael(not the same one) and Joey) tols Aaron that I was a devil worshiper(DW)!And aaron broke up with me. I am trying to make Aaron believe I am not a devil-worshiper(my bff even told him for me) because I TRULY Love Aaron. I dream about him! Joey told Aaron that I was a DW because he likes me(GROSS!) He told DJ he wanted to have sex w/ me! so nasty! DJ doesn't like me because I told my bff that if I was her I wouldn't go out w/ DJ (they were a couple) but it was her decision. So he told Aaron. Travis told Aaron I was a DW because I wouldn't give him my food at lunch! And Michael just hates me. Sorry Its so long

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BeautifulMadness answered Thursday June 2 2005, 6:49 pm:
Right. Well first of all, if Aaron is going to break up with you because of silly, unfounded rumours, he's not worth bothering with. Really! You might think that you love him but trust me, there will be someone better out there for you.
If you still want to give Aaron a go though, the best option is talking to him yourself. On his own. Don't get your best friend to do it, don't tell it to his best friend. Send an email if it's too hard in person or he tends to ignore you now, just do whatever you do yourself. This is about you two, not his friends or your friends or anyone else who may be involved.
You need to tell him that you are not a devil worshipper (also, if he really loved you he wouldn't care if you were a murderer. Although I guess loving someone that much comes after marriage, not high school dating, lol). Tell him why you were wearing black. And then tell him straight that if he'd rather believe some dumb rumours than you, he can forget about your relationship. He obviously doesn't know you. If he looks interested again and wants to take you back, then make sure he knows he has to know who you are and trust that if you are going to get back with him!!
If he doesn't want you back, then just remember that he's a petty little boy who would rather believe rumours than what his heart is telling him. And come back here for some kind words and advice on how to get over him quicker =)
Good luck hun!!
Blessed Be,
Rach xxx

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