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Question Posted Thursday June 2 2005, 4:10 am

I just recently ended a relationship with someone I thought I loved. I tried too hard to be in love with him because I want nothing more than to have that connection with somebody. I was also attracted to someone else. I thought this person was attracted to me as well, but as it turns out, he has his eye on someone else. Me and this person are also pretty good friends. It's hard to be around them when I want nothing more than to be able to love him. I don't know what to do when I'm with him now, and I don't know where our relationship stands. We're still friends, but it's hard now that my feelings are out there and they're not being reciprocated. I'm realizing I also don't know how to talk to this person because before I found out he liked someone else, I was always flirting with him. I like this person, and I still want him to be apart of my life. I'm just afraid I'm going to spend my time hoping he'll eventually change his feelings about me. I just don't want to be disappointed if that doesn't happen.

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CriscoZills answered Thursday June 2 2005, 11:02 am:
Oh, isn't life grand? That was sarcasm by the way. If you like this guy and you know he doesn't have the same feelings for you, you should either try to keep them under wraps or actually talk to him about it. Talking is always a good thing. If it freaks him out when you tell him how you feel, then you'll know he isn't right for you. Your heart won't lead you the wrong way. It may cause you to pursue a relationship that will end in heartbreak, but it's only leading you the way so you'll learn.

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