Ok so I'm going back out with my boyfriend now, and we had been dating for 7 months...Anyways, I really want to move forward physically. I don't want to go all the way with him, or even half way there...but is there anything I can do with him other than french kissing...or is there a way that I can make that not get boring. I feel like we need to do something new, and we are so close to each other. I'm so comfortable when I'm around him. So please help me
~Stuck in 1st gear
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? LiLReBeL6907 answered Tuesday May 31 2005, 4:58 pm: Ok, look... since you and him have been basically in first base since the last time you guys started dating make it more interesting. You say you're comfortable around him, so if you are then take it up a notch. I suggest you take control first and he will follow your lead. Many times guys keeps things slow because they don't know how fast you want them to go. So it would also be smart to talk to him about how far you want to go with him physically. That way it is out in the open and he knows what to expect. Let me put this bluntly, other than kissing, hand jobs, fingering, oral sex... all that is all you can do since you don't feel comfortable going all the way with him. And after a while, even that can get kinda old. So try some kinky things to switch it up. Things like food, blind folds,( and no... you don't have to turn into some kinky sex goddess... lol) but doing stuff like this will make it alot more interesting. Also try new places... if you always makeout in his car or in the movie theatre than come up with a more daring place to mess around. [ LiLReBeL6907's advice column | Ask LiLReBeL6907 A Question ]
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